Do Premature Ejaculation Drugs Work? Discover the Truth & the Best Way to Last Longer During Sex!

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

Many men continue to search for the magic bullet to last longer in bed, and there is a mind-numbing array of premature ejaculation solutions on the market that claim to improve your sexual stamina. Among these are drugs that are developed to treat men suffering from early ejaculation. But do these drugs really work? Or are guys misplacing their faith in these ‘miracle cures’? Let us examine this closer. Later in this article you will also learn the best way to supercharge your ejaculatory control and enjoy longer lasting sex.

The truth about treating premature ejaculation with drugs

There is presently no known drug or supplements that has been approved by the FDA for general consumption. Indeed, there has been a lack of conclusive proof that one can completely cure rapid ejaculation through the use of drugs. While some notable companies have been developing antidepressant-based drugs for treating premature ejaculation, the results have not been forthcoming. These substances belong to the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRIs) family of drugs, and are known to cause adverse side effects.

The use of local anesthetics

Another common application of drugs is in the use of local anesthetics containing Benzocaine. These are commonly applied externally onto the penis in the form of PE sprays and creams and are readily available in retails stores. While these are effective to a certain extent, the downside is that these sprays have the tendency to reduce the sensation experienced during sex due to the numbing effects on the male anatomy. The timing of the application also comes into play. If you apply too early, your erection may be affected. If applied too late, it may not be sufficiently absorbed into your skin and can easily transfer to your female partner during sex and cause numbness in the vagina.

Your best option to last longer in bed

Many of the options such as those described above are short-term “cures” that will not permanently treat premature ejaculation. The long-term solution to lasting longer in bed is to adopt natural techniques and methods that will re-train and re-condition your ejaculatory reflexes. These include first understanding your sexual arousal cycle and adopting relaxation and breathing techniques to stay away from the “point of no return” during sex. The good news is that most men have this predisposed ability to last longer and enhance their sexual endurance through natural techniques, and not rely on artificial PE cures.

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How to Improve Sexual Stamina & Develop Massive Control During Sex (Most Men Get This Wrong!)

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

Do you find yourself falling short in bed and want to seek ways to improve your sexual stamina? Indeed, going by the column discussions in men’s magazines and the dizzying array of advertising on premature ejaculation solutions, it is clear that many men are not happy (or are even embarrassed) with their performance in bed.

Well, if you already recognize that your sexual stamina needs to be improved, you are already in a better league that the vast majority of guys who lament about their lack of staying power. Now let’s put into perspective of what you can do to help you last longer in bed, as soon as tonight

The old-world view of beating premature ejaculation

There are many guys who attempt to last longer in the sack using an old classic – mind distraction techniques. This involves momentarily taking your mind away from sex when you are close to a climax, such as recalling mundane projects at work, or counting numbers backwards from 1000. Other men try to limit the sensation they feel during sex by putting on extra condoms. The downside of such methods is obvious: they spoil the fun during sex. And it is embarrassing too. Imagine fumbling with wearing two or three condoms in front of your partner…

For some men, these techniques have their place in bed. But for others, nothing beats the NATURAL ability to last long enough to bring your lover to an orgasm FIRST. So how to you attain such lasting stamina in bed?

Man’s best weapon against early ejaculation

The way you breathe has a great impact on how long you are able to last without blowing early. Many guys try to control their breathing but are simply doing it the WRONG way. This is how you adopt the correct breathing technique:

#1. Focus your breathing patterns from the lower part of your belly. Instead of sucking in your belly like most guys do when they breathe in, push out your stomach as you inhale. Keep your shoulders level at all times. If your shoulders move up and down, you are adopting anxious breathing which significantly reduces your sexual arousal control. Do not make the mistake of taking quick, short breaths during sex. Maintain slow, deep and steady breaths. This gives you massive control.

#2. Most importantly, keep the pattern of your breathing natural. Don’t consciously force your breathing to be regular. Forced breathing actually increases your sexual anxiety and makes your body tensed – a sure way to ejaculate quickly.

With enough practice, you will be able to breathe deeply, naturally and without conscious effort. This will help you manage your sexual arousal much better and make sure you never orgasm before she does. Believe me, your woman will be in awe of your sexual prowess!

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Problems With Premature Ejaculation? Develop Superior Sexual Stamina With These 2 Easy Principles!

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

Premature ejaculation is a common problem that haunts many men in the bedroom. But do not blame yourself for not lasting long enough for your lover. The tendency to ejaculate quickly during sex is biologically ingrained in most men as a way to ensure efficient procreation of the human race. But if you want to boost your sexual stamina and want to last as long as your female partner during sex, this can be easily achieved even without medical or professional help. Keen to learn how? I bet you do! Keep reading…

Principle #1 – Tune into sex, NOT out of sex

You need to appreciate and experience full-body sensuality – not just intercourse. Sex is not only about your penis in her vagina. If this is your perception of sex, you are bound to remain a quick ejaculator. Make sex an entire head-to-toe experience. Relaxation holds the key here. Do not jump straight into intercourse at every opportunity. Instead, “tune into sex” by approaching it in a sexy manner, for example, by giving your partner a sensuous massage or taking a bath together. This helps to relieve overall tension in your body and reduces the chances of involuntary ejaculation during lovemaking. The best thing is that this will also lower her threshold for an orgasm and increases the odds that you will at least last as long her.

Principle #2 – Work with your point of “ejaculation inevitability”, NOT against it

A great way to achieve this is to masturbate with a dry hand first. Get yourself stimulated but do not push yourself over the edge yet. This will teach you how to stay highly aroused without ejaculating. Let the sensations subside and resume arousing yourself just to your point of no return (PONR), then backing off once more. Once you have attained decent control over your ejaculation, move on to masturbation using some lubrication. This will intense the intensity of sexual stimulation and will be closer to what it feels during actual intercourse. Follow the same routine and stimulate close to the PONR several times and then backing off. This “self love” technique will help you get in sync with your ejaculation inevitability and gives you superior ejaculatory control before long.

Don’t be too hard on yourself when things don’t go right at first. Developing ejaculatory control may not be the most natural thing initially. It does take time, patience and practice. But keep your spirits up and try to see the lighter side of things even when you ‘accidentally spill’ during sex.

Think about what awaits you when you finally achieve better ejaculatory control. You will become suddenly more interested in sex and enjoy more satisfying lovemaking sessions. And she too, will be looking forward to each tantalizing encounter in bed with you!

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How to Get Rid of Premature Ejaculation – Are You Missing These 2 Secrets For Extended Lovemaking?

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

When it comes to men’s sexual health, one of the most frequently asked question is how a man can get rid of premature ejaculation. In fact, lasting longer in bed is by far the number one question that reputable men’s health magazines have been getting regularly. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual conditions affecting nearly 40% of all men.

Now, while many sex therapists charge ridiculous fees to help you increase your sexual stamina, the simple truth is that you can easily learn how to achieve the same outcome from home. Read on for 2 powerful secrets that are proven to help you last much longer in the sack. Believe me, your lover will thank you for it!

Secret #1 – Keeping your stress levels at a minimum

One major contributing factor for early ejaculation during sex is stress. You see, when you are stressed up, your body will become tense during intercourse. This will naturally cause your body to seek ways to release that tension. And Mother Nature has its own funny way to reduce that stress through early ejaculation. So what are the best methods to keep your stress at a manageable level? For one, exercise is a surefire way to beat those stress bugs. And for good reason too. When you workout, you are opening an outlet for the release of stress. Thus when you engage in sex, you become less prone to climax unceremoniously. Other proven ways to keep your stress levels at a minimum include adopting proper breathing techniques which enable you to remain calm during lovemaking.

Secret #2 – Conditioning your body to withstand intense stimulation

One of the key triggers for premature ejaculation is our masturbation habits we picked up from young. You see, many men instinctively masturbate to the point of climax as quickly as possible. As a result, your body is “naturally” conditioned to ejaculate in lightning fast speed during sex as well.

But here lies the great thing about lasting longer. Just because this is a habitual ‘malfunction’, it also means your natural tendency to ejaculate quickly can be easily reversed through the proper masturbation techniques. Instead of rushing through the act, try to prolong the session for as long as possible by keeping your stimulation and levels of arousal in control. By knowing exactly when you normally come to an orgasm, you can progressively push the limits and extend the point where ejaculation becomes inevitable.

With some discipline and a willingness to make things happen, you can get rid of premature ejaculation and last as long you want during sex.

 

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Ways to Last Longer in Bed – Beat Embarrassing Premature Ejaculation and Have Amazingly Long Sex!

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

Sex is almost an absolute necessity in life and forms the basis of many enduring relationships. But many men simply fall short when it comes to lasting longer in bed. Premature ejaculation or PE is often the bane of guys who wish they have the endurance to keep going like the Duracell ads. The simple truth is that early or rapid ejaculation during sex can happen to any man. But before we can even get to the solutions to lasting longer, you first need to understand the prevalence of PE, its definitions and if you are truly suffering from it.

How prevalent is premature ejaculation?

The problem is more common than you would probably imagine. PE is without a doubt the most prevalent sexual health issue that confronts many men. At least 30 million American men are thought to have this condition. Anecdotal survey results have suggested that as many as half of the male population has the dubious distinction of finishing too fast in bed.

You are a ‘premature ejaculator’ if:

- You are not able to extend intercourse beyond 2 minutes.

- You are not able to sexually fulfill your partner more than half the time

- Your condition is negatively affecting you or your partner, or both

There are many schools of thought when it comes to defining PE, but the above are the common definitions. Using a time-based determination of PE has its flaws, thus many medical professionals prefer to use the last definition.

Real-world solutions to last longer during sex

There are many off-the-shelve solutions that claim to add minutes to your sex. You would probably have heard about (or even used) products such as desensitization creams and sprays. ‘Climax control’ condoms are also popular among guys who need that extra stamina in bed. More serious sufferers of this condition may be prescribed antidepressant-based drugs by their doctors. But honestly, many of these solutions have their downsides, including reduced sexual pleasure (sprays, creams, ointments etc) or difficulty in ejaculating (in the case of drugs).

Well, if given a choice, most guys would want to last longer in bed without sacrificing the full pleasures of sex. If this is you, then you should go for a solution that permanently reverses your tendency to ejaculate prematurely without affecting your sexual experience.

One proven technique is to adopt a natural training and conditioning regimen. Such a program includes targeted exercises such as breathing and relaxation techniques, as well as routines that strengthen specific pelvic muscles. These will bestow upon your body the natural ability to withstand hard stimulation to your manhood without the disappointing urge to ejaculate too soon.

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Ways to Stop Premature Ejaculation – 4 Embarrassingly Easy Tricks to Unleash Your Sexual Endurance!

Posted on February 4, 2012 by Dawn

Imagine this. You have a hot date you want to spend the night with, and you want to make sure you give her a great time in bed. But at the back of your mind, you wonder if you can even last 5 minutes when the real action begins. The last time you had sex, you probably blew it within a couple of quick minutes. Well, you don’t have to be a ‘quick shooter’ any more. With these 4 easy ways to stop premature ejaculation, you can finally hold your head up high and banish your embarrassment of finishing too soon during sex. Caution: be prepared to keep going and going all night long:-)

Trick #1 – Get in a practice round

You have probably seen the movie “There’s something About Mary”. In one memorable and funny scene, Ben Stiller was seen indulging in some self-love before his date. By releasing your pent-up tension, your body will not be so on-edge and less responsive, and you will be able to last much longer during intercourse. So get in a practice round an hour or two before you are due to meet your girl. She will be impressed by your extended staying power!

Trick #2 – Penis rings are a God-send

These nifty devices are popular among some men who want to supercharge their sexual stamina. Well, if you are not totally into one of these gadgets, why not try a ‘couples’ version that comes with a clitoris stimulator. This will give you the best of both worlds. On one hand, the penis ring will restrict blood flow and enhance your endurance. On the other hand, she will get added pleasure through the extra stimulation.

Trick #3 – The “Great South Barrier”

Putting on extra protection or condoms not only keeps sex safe (especially if you have multiple partners), it reduces the sensation on your penis head and adds minutes to your lovemaking. And if you are in the mood for it, there are novelty condoms for sale that will add extra sizzle to your sex life and enhances your sexual endurance at the same time.

Trick #4 – Self discovery for enhanced stamina

Learning and understanding your body’s limits of arousal are one of the keys to stopping premature ejaculation. If you can identify how it feels when you are near to the point-of-no-return, you can learn how to stay away from this point through subtle changes to your sex positions or by applying simple techniques like squeezing the base of your penis shaft before ejaculation becomes inevitable.

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How to Prevent Premature Ejaculation – Make Sex Last Longer With This Amazingly Simple Shortcut!

Posted on February 2, 2012 by Dawn

So you want to prevent premature ejaculation and extend your lovemaking sessions. Well, stamina is one major sticking point that most guys face in the bedroom. If you cannot last long enough in bed, there is a good chance that your woman is not getting as much fun as she deserves. But is there a proven technique to develop superior control and stop early ejaculation in its tracks? There sure is!

The secret lies in training and conditioning your body so that you can stay below the point where your arousal tips over into ejaculation inevitability. And the best thing is, this is actually easy to achieve, and without the embarrassment of having to apply desensitizing creams or put on extra condoms. Keep reading and learn an amazingly simple ‘ABC’ technique that can help you develop vastly superior ejaculatory control really fast.

The ‘ABC’ Technique Of Lasting Longer

#1 – Avoid rapid thrusting: This is a no-brainer but it surprises me just how many men go into frenzied thrusting mode during intercourse. Just by slowing down the speed of your penetration, you will stem quick ejaculation almost instantly. In addition, try to alter the angle and depth of thrusts so that your penis gland (or head) receives less stimulation.

#2 – Block your motions: Continue your penetration until the point where you feel you are almost close to ejaculation. Then discontinue your thrusts immediately. But don’t just stop and lie there. There is no rule saying that only your manhood can provide her pleasure! Go ahead and continue to stimulate your partner using your hands and mouth. Kiss and caress her on her most sensitive areas until your stimulation and arousal have leveled off. Only then do you resume penetration again. But at this stage you would probably get close to the edge again in less time. This is when you go to the next step of this technique.

#3 – Clutch your ‘head’: The first 2 steps should have you lasting for at least 4 minutes (which is beyond the average man’s staying power). This time, when you feel close to the tipping point, withdraw your member and clutch or squeeze the head of your penis. Your will not feel any pain, so go ahead and give it a pinch. When the sensations subside, you can continue intercourse.

Try using all three steps of this technique. Many guys reported extending their lovemaking sessions by up to 7 minutes with these 3 moves. If at first you don’t succeed, keep trying. You will only get better and last much longer!

 

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Overcoming Premature Ejaculation – This Easy Sex Position is Phenomenal For Lasting Longer in Bed!

Posted on February 2, 2012 by Dawn

Are you suffering from the unenviable scourge of premature ejaculation? For many men, not lasting long enough in bed is a deep-seated embarrassment. Although there are plenty of so-called ‘miracle cures’ on the market that claim to extend your sexual stamina, many of these require you to apply external ointments and sprays which can ultimately reduce your sensation during sex.

But without falling prey to dubious marketing tactics and ‘lasting longer products’, are there natural ways to boost your staying power in bed? Indeed there are. And one powerful technique is to adopt sexual positions that will help you control your levels of arousal during sex. The truth is that the right sex positions can be one of the best cures for premature ejaculation – if you know how use it correctly. Let’s take a quick look at one easy position that can add minutes to your lovemaking.

Leverage the Power of the ‘Spoon’

Also known as the ‘front to back’ position, the ‘spoon’ basically requires both you and your female partner to lie on your sides with both your legs slightly bent. The area of her hips will be pressed against your groin while your penetrate her from behind.

This position gives you a lot of control over your stimulation and arousal levels. Firstly, by lying down, you are reducing the amount of stress and tension exerted on your arms and legs that are needed for support. Second, ‘spooning’ enables you to adjust the speed and intensity of the thrusting, as well as the depth of penetration. Third, this is a great position to slow down your thrusts, lean over her shoulders to kiss her face and neck or use your hands to caress her breasts – which greatly helps to divert attention away from the stimulation to your manhood.

The spoon position is great for women too because it enhances the intimacy levels between couples.

A Naughty Variation

You can add more spice to this position by taking her upper leg and draping it across your own. This forces her thighs to open fairly widely, allowing you to thrust deeply and giving you great access to her clitoris.

Here’s another trick to help you last longer: When you sense that you are close to a climax, withdraw your penis from her until the sensation subsides. Then switch to another position that is great for keep premature ejaculation in check, such as variations of the woman-on-top position.

The key is to take things slowly during intercourse. Keep the tempo steady and unhurried. You will last much longer. And she will be impressed that you are able to take control during sex!

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How to Have Sex Longer – This Premature Ejaculation Technique is So Powerful, it Should Be Illegal!

Posted on February 2, 2012 by Dawn

For many couples, premature ejaculation is a woefully common problem. In fact, many men ejaculate as soon as penetration starts. For others, sex fizzles out after just two minutes. So how do you have sex longer when you can’t even hold your ejaculation for a couple of minutes? Let us take a closer look below.

The “Step-Up” Technique To Lasting Longer

Premature ejaculation tends to affect younger men, especially those in their 20s and 30s. This is understandable, as men are most sexually active in their early years and have yet to learn how to control their ejaculation.

There is one extremely powerful technique you can use to enhance your ejaculatory control. This involves three stages, with each one incrementally more challenging than the one before (thus the “step-up”).

Stage #1

When you are alone, try masturbating to achieve an erection. Then use your thumb, index and middle fingers to firmly squeeze your penis head until the sensation cools off. Then stimulate your penis again and repeat the squeeze to reduce the sensation once more. Repeat this 3 to 4 times until you become acutely aware of how it feels at the point of ejaculation. This takes a little practice, but after a few weeks, you should have gained enough control to last at least a few minutes longer.

Stage #2

This is similar to the first step, except this time you will involve your partner to perform the squeezing routine to control your stimulation and arousal. Repeat this on several occasions and you will significantly improve your ejaculatory control. Now you are ready for the next stage.

Stage #3

This is the most challenging part. Again get your partner involved and ask her to sit on you with her legs straddling your hips. Insert your penis into her and just lie on your back without any movement. When you find yourself able to contain your arousal, ask your partner to slowly move her hips up and down. Watch your sensations. As soon as you sense you are peaking, ask her to stop, get off and perform the squeeze technique. Repeat this entire routine over several lovemaking sessions.

It should not be long before you achieve the ability to hold your orgasm and ejaculate at will.

Here’s an additional tip: Often times, it is the female partner who spends time getting the men aroused. Why not turn it around and try arousing her FIRST? This is a quick way to turn the tables on your early ejaculation and make sex last much longer for you.

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How to Prolong Ejaculation – Using Sex Positions As Premature Ejaculation Remedies (This is Easy!)

Posted on February 2, 2012 by Dawn

Are you embarrassed by how soon you finish in bed? Is premature ejaculation making you feel less of a man and make you look like a lousy lover? There is probably nothing worse than your woman anticipating a night of pleasure, only to have you being “too quick on the draw” and ejaculate too soon. That’s not all. Early ejaculation often leads to loss of confidence in a man and increases his performance anxiety. This in turn doesn’t help – and in many cases – worsen your problem of early ejaculation.

Sex positions: The bane of the premature ejaculator?

Truth be told, most couples adopt at most 2 different sex positions during intercourse. Well, considering that most guys ejaculate within two to four minutes during sex, that does not provide much leeway for experimenting with different positions. But ironically, the converse is also true: the more positions you experiment with during sex, the more likely you will find some positions that will give you better control over your arousal and stimulation levels. In short, how long you last in bed and how well you perform can be directly controlled and improved by the sex position you use.

The truth about positioning

There are certain sex positions that put undue stress on your arms, legs and other parts of your body. This stress makes it difficult to control your arousal and delay your ejaculation. The missionary position is a surefire position for quick ejaculation. Well, this is a common position that most guys use during sex… so is it any wonder that many men don’t last the distance? What happens is that this position requires you to prop yourself up. And after thrusting for a couple of minutes, the amount of stress and tension in the muscles on your arms and legs will often push you over the edge and make you lose control over your arousal.

So what position is great for prolonging ejaculation?

Great question! The woman-on-top or cowgirl position gives you far better ejaculatory control even though your woman is actually controlling the movements and thrusting. When your partner is on top, your body muscles become relaxed and you have a far better chance of lasting longer.

A good way to vary the positions is to start off with the missionary when you are most in control and have the highest energy levels. When fatigue kicks in and you know you are close to ejaculation, switch to the cowgirl position. Just the fact that you are changing positions will also reduce your arousal level and keep your ejaculatory reflexes in control.

 

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